My boyfriend is still on online dating site
”, “what if he goes on other sites to look at women?
I’ll never know if I’m not there”, “can I really trust him now? I have also wondered in the past whether we have different boundaries in terms of sex, as he has slept with more people than me (about 20), whereas I have only had 2 sexual partners (him and my ex).
However, in the old days we would have to find a photo, write a letter, post it to a PO Box and wait for a reply.
It wasn’t very likely we were going to do all that unless we were interested in meeting that person.
I found this out after he started to write something in a search engine on his laptop when I was sitting next to him, which brought up his history in the search bar and I asked “do you still look at …(dating website)”.
At first, he replied that he has a couple of times, and then when I was unsure whether he was being honest, I asked again and he then said a couple of times a week.
He also told me that the reason he’s started doing it again recently was because he’s bored whilst he’s staying in hotels.The other big difference is that our homes are much more porous than before. In the past, there was one phone and we knew who had called.Now, your partner could be texting someone else in another room and you don’t know.Should I be feeling so insecure or do I just need to let it go?I know this has made me feel insecure and I hate it, I just want to enjoy being in the relationship again!